Today, I’m bringing you Episode 2 of my Holiday Mini Series sadly without my awesome partner, Jeni Dahn, because we were experiencing technical difficulties. Let’s just blame it on the new mercury retrograde.
All of these mini series episodes will focus on components of codependency because it’s a root issue in many relationships. Here’s what I touch on today:
- How to be “healthy detached” and what that means.
- Coming to terms with the fact that it’s NOBODY’S job to fulfill you.
- Learning how to push people back on their side of the net.
- Figuring out if you’re “right fighting” and how’s that working for you?
- Allowing your behavior to lead the conversation.
- Planning your Best Self words now for when you get triggered during the holidays.
I can guarantee that between now and New Year’s you will get triggered so best to make your plans now for how you can reset in the moment. I hope these tools series will serve you well!
If this conversation resonates with you and you’re realizing that this is work that you really need to do, consider joining us at the Maui 2019 Retreat https://tw183-a76c28.pages.infusionsoft.net
. It’s basically going to be a year of therapy in five days!!! And it’s MAUI!!! COME ON!!! Register here and grab one of the last 8 spots:https://www.facebook.com/jessica.butts.9400/videos/10217851345945497/
Love this Jessica. Love how you gave us all something solid to practice and do.
You’re the best.
Loved your topic!!! I’m codependent! Thank you for this information and insight!!
Catching up on posts and videos. I stopped the play to make sure and internet comment. I sure miss you and the front seat life group. I too began to cry when you did. I’m 12 years out from my divorce, re-married to the most amazing man, but my ex’s wounds still get triggered. Better for sure, but gosh that pain sticks deep. You got this! Thank you so much for what you do and sharing your soul. It’s beautiful:)
Loved the video. I’m so grateful that I look forward to being with you and Erica for Christmas. So hope you both feel the same.