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Category: Marriage conflict

Solo Trips for Self-Rejuvenation

As my husband and I are about to embark on our own solo trips (him much cooler than mine as he is going to Sri Lanka to do humanitarian work in an orphanage, me, just to Cannon Beach for a week) I was reminded of a conversation I had with a client about her love […]

Nelson Mandela Speech I LOVE!

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.  It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?  Actually, who are you not to be?  You are a child of […]

Are “Thinking” women really bitches, or are they just misunderstood?

This is one of the most controversial, fascinating and misunderstood aspects of Type and of course, I want to talk about it! In this Myers Briggs pairing we are discussing our personal preference for how we make decisions and come to conclusions, we each have a preference, either for Feeling or Thinking. In my workshops […]

Gottman’s “unresolvable perpetual problems” and Personality Type!

In Gottman’s new book The Science of Trust he discusses the one missing piece of his work for the past 30 years, TRUST. He also spend a great dseal of time discussing his concept of “Unresolvable Perpetual Problems” and how those UPP’s are related to personality type so of course I was intrigued and TOTALLY […]