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Today, we examine INFJ – The Protector. Some of my best friends are INFJ’s – they are supportive, amazing people.
INFJ – The Protector
Driver: Your best self
INTROVERTED INTUITION IN THE INTERNAL WORLD/IN YOUR HEAD:
- You see patterns, relationships, symbols, meanings
- You make magical connections to practical problems
- You create a unique vision and arrive at unique insights about things or people
- You can fill in the missing pieces of a life puzzle
- You have complex visions or perspectives that you are unable to explain with clarity to others
- You often ask yourself (and others) “What if…”
- You’re always thinking about what’s next or how you could be improving yourself or your situation
Copilot: What the world sees of you, your second-best self
EXTROVERTED FEELING IN THE EXTERNAL WORLD:
- You reach out to attach and interact with other living things
- You nurture relationships and connections
- You validate and value others
- You’re often found encouraging, coaching, educating and motivating others
- You’re good at protecting, helping and caretaking
- You promote collaboration
- You seek harmony in interpersonal relationships
Drunk Uncle in the Back Seat: Things you suck at and should NOT be doing
INTROVERTED THINKING IN THE INTERNAL WORLD/IN YOUR HEAD OR HEART:
- Work that requires you to use strict logic and order
- Anything that doesn’t recognize your intuitive wisdom
- Activities which require you to internally process and discriminate logic from illogic
- Work that requires you to seek clues and root causes, like a detective
- Having to solve other people’s problems (often or repeatedly)
- You need to have people in your life to help you see the logic in situations since this is an area you are going to struggle with
Baby in the Back Seat: Where you go under deep stress or when someone has hurt you
EXTROVERTED SENSING IN THE EXTERNAL WORLD YOU GET LOUD:
- You get loud and start bossing people around
- You start obsessing about details, facts
- You demand that people do things a very specific way
- You develop a “my way or the highway” mentality
- You might go into a list making binge
- You want to talk about every detail of a conversation or the way a situation went (especially if it ended badly for you)
- You may go on an eating, drinking or exercise binge