I am sending each of the 16 cars for the next 16 weeks (we are on 3 of 16) to help you learn about each type and see if you can identify friends and family like this so you can better understand them. Type is ALL about better understanding ourselves and others so we can live our best lives and have amazing relationships!!

So far we have covered ISTJ and ISFJ, you can go back and read the others if you missed them.

Today’s is INFJ – The Protector Car, some of my best friends are INFJ’s, they are supportive, amazing people.

INFJ – The Protector

Driver: Your best self

INTROVERTED INTUITION IN THE INTERNAL WORLD/IN YOUR HEAD: 

  • You see patterns, relationships, symbols, meanings
  • You make magical connections to practical problems
  • You create a unique vision and arrive at unique insights about things or people
  • You can fill in the missing pieces of a life puzzle
  • You have complex visions or perspectives that you are unable to explain with clarity to others
  • You often ask yourself (and others) “What if…”
  • You’re always thinking about what’s next or how you could be improving yourself or your situation

Copilot: What the world sees of you, your second-best self

EXTROVERTED FEELING IN THE EXTERNAL WORLD: 

  • You reach out to attach and interact with other living things
  • You nurture relationships and connections
  • You validate and value others
  • You’re often found encouraging, coaching, educating and motivating others
  • You’re good at protecting, helping and caretaking
  • You promote collaboration
  • You seek harmony in interpersonal relationships

Drunk Uncle in the Back Seat: Things you suck at and should NOT be doing

INTROVERTED THINKING IN THE INTERNAL WORLD/IN YOUR HEAD OR HEART: 

  • Work that requires you to use strict logic and order
  • Anything that doesn’t recognize your intuitive wisdom
  • Activities which require you to internally process and discriminate logic from illogic
  • Work that requires you to seek clues and root causes, like a detective
  • Having to solve other people’s problems (often or repeatedly)
  • You need to have people in your life to help you see the logic in situations since this is an area you are going to struggle with

Baby in the Back Seat: Where you go under deep stress or when someone has hurt you

EXTROVERTED SENSING IN THE EXTERNAL WORLD YOU GET LOUD:

  • You get loud and start bossing people around
  • You start obsessing about details, facts
  • You demand that people do things a very specific way
  • You develop a “my way or the highway” mentality
  • You might go into a list making binge
  • You want to talk about every detail of a conversation or the way a situation went (especially if it ended badly for you)
  • You may go on an eating, drinking or exercise binge