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Extrovert starting to retreat to introverted inferior self

As you all know I am a type guru and I even use this stuff on myself.   I am also an ENFJ which means my: Dominate Type is:     Extroverted Feeling Auxiliary Type is:        Introverted Intuition Tertiary Type is:         Extroverted Sensing and lastly, and what I want to write about and share some thoughts on today […]

Did you watch the debates last night? Understand how your Type affects how you vote!

Watching the presidential debate last night got me thinking about how each of us bases our decision on who to vote for based off of our Type. The third dichotomy or pairing of the Myers Briggs assessment, the MBTI,  is how we make decisions and come to conclusions.  We either have a preference for Thinking […]

What Extroverts really think of Introverts!

  At my recent Myers Briggs Workshop-The Power of YOU-Discovering your Innateness and Greatness through Type I asked the participants to separate into groups of introverts and extroverts once we discovered their Type.  Once in their groups I asked the Extroverts to brainstorm the following question: What do you think of Introverts? This is what they […]

Introverts-What they really think!

At my workshop on Saturday one of the exercises we did was break off into groups of Introverts and Extroverts and I asked them to brainstorm on two questions: What do you think of the other Type? What do you want the other Type to know about your Type? I have learned to give plenty […]

Barak Obama-Is he an ENFJ? I think so.

Michelle Obama’s inspirational speech on Tuesday night has been getting lots of attention and Barak himself will be taking the stage tonight.  While I was listening to Michelle, our first lady, speak about her husband and her key words to describe him got me thinking about his personality type…I think he is and ENFJ.  Here’s why. […]

Back to school-How to greet your introverted or extroverted child after school.

  Now that it is back to school time it got me thinking about how different child with different Types have different needs.  I will focus this post on just Introversion and Extraversion. Understanding your child’s temperament can make a huge difference in your understanding of your childs needs. Extroverted and Introverted children need to […]

Are “Thinking” women really bitches, or are they just misunderstood?

This is one of the most controversial, fascinating and misunderstood aspects of Type and of course, I want to talk about it! In this Myers Briggs pairing we are discussing our personal preference for how we make decisions and come to conclusions, we each have a preference, either for Feeling or Thinking. In my workshops […]

History of Myers Briggs

I am starting a new series of post on my favorite topic, Personality Type and how it can change your life. I have witnessed dramatic realizations in my client’s lives from understanding and applying some simple principles from Type and I want to share as much of this information as I can with everyone interested. […]

Gottman’s “unresolvable perpetual problems” and Personality Type!

In Gottman’s new book The Science of Trust he discusses the one missing piece of his work for the past 30 years, TRUST. He also spend a great dseal of time discussing his concept of “Unresolvable Perpetual Problems” and how those UPP’s are related to personality type so of course I was intrigued and TOTALLY […]

Icebergs and Cruise Ships are like Personality Type

Introverts main part of their personality are like this iceberg, most of it is saved under the surface. Introverts save their best selves for themselves and they get to love, appreciate and nuture themselves out of the light of the rest of the world. Their true personality is really hidden from the world, just like this iceberg. […]