A Balance of Self and Others We are making a big move in topics from “self” to “others.” We do not live in a silo. We do not live alone. We live with others and one of the best models that I ever learned was this model of attunement and differentiation. That’s what today’s episode is […]
Category: Marriage counseling
How to get the best out of Intuitives
July 27, 2018 | posted by Jessica Butts
Today, we talk about how to get the best out of Intuitives. Let’s start by remembering that the second dichotomy in Myers Briggs personality type (Sensing or Intuition) is all about how people like their world organized. Intuitives (N) which are 25% of the population like to have the space and freedom to be creative […]
How to get the best out of Sensors
July 26, 2018 | posted by Jessica Butts
How to get the best out of Sensors who make up 75% of the population! Are you packaging your words and message in a way that is fully digestible for Sensors? Check out this short video to find out how you can do that.
How to get the best out of Introverts
July 20, 2018 | posted by Jessica Butts
Did you know that Introverts don’t like to think on the fly? They can do it, but it’s not their best thinking. They would rather process internally over time before they share thoughts and ideas with others. In our extroverted world, Introverts can often feel marginalized and walked over by Extroverts. Don’t get frustrated that […]
How to get the best out of Extroverts
July 19, 2018 | posted by Jessica Butts
Don’t we all want to know how to work most effectively with other people in the office and at home? What if you were a master in all your relationships? Wouldn’t that give you more confidence, ease, and peace of mind knowing that you are a highly tuned people person? One of the top questions […]
Why you need systems, structure, and like-minded people
May 29, 2018 | posted by Jessica Butts
Today, I want to share with you the personal story of my “Why”. Why I do the work that I do. I share this revealing story with the hope that it can be inspiring and show you how similar we all are in our need to belong and connect, which is at the heart […]
Owner’s Manual to Yourself: Let me introduce you to you-6 week bootcamp
May 4, 2014 | posted by Jessica Butts
I am thrilled to introduce my new 6 week bootcamp and 6 month coaching program appropriately named…Owner’s Manual to Yourself: Let me introduce you to you. Take a look at the short video, where I even get a little emotional talking about how important it is to do this work, and then find out more […]
1st Favorite Relationship Tip, Tool or Technique
February 10, 2013 | posted by Jessica Butts
My first favorite relationship tip, tool or technique in honor of “love” week is: The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman www.5lovelanguages.com This is a tangible, excellent tool to use with couples to help them get back on track with one another. Chapman’s book is an easy, must read but I also have a cheat sheet […]
Nelson Mandela Speech I LOVE!
October 30, 2012 | posted by Jessica Butts
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of […]
Are “Thinking” women really bitches, or are they just misunderstood?
August 16, 2012 | posted by Jessica Butts
This is one of the most controversial, fascinating and misunderstood aspects of Type and of course, I want to talk about it! In this Myers Briggs pairing we are discussing our personal preference for how we make decisions and come to conclusions, we each have a preference, either for Feeling or Thinking. In my workshops […]
